There are so many parties surrounding a wedding. There is an engagement party, bridal shower, bachlorette party, rehearsal dinner and then the big day. That is not to mention family get togethers during this unforgettable time in your life.

Do all these party need to happen before the wedding? Are you worried that one of these parties may overshadow your wedding? Is it a concern?


Do not take over every party like it is your job. Enjoy the parties since they are honoring you. You are in control of the wedding of the century. Stay focus on that one event and let others work their fingers to the bone to make the other events happen. You do not want these parties to be too lavish but they should be fun. Your family and friends know you and they want you to have a good time. Bring on the fun if you want to contribute to these events.

Stay well rested and keep up your appearances. If you party too hard it will show in the morning and mainly on wedding day.